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Am I dating …?
Finish the question. Each answer is a short screener built only from documented evidence — every item cites its source, and your answers never leave this page.
No account. No ads. No analytics. Nothing stored.
01 — Answer
A few minutes of questions
10 to 16 per screener — about how they talk, the story they tell, and what they ask for; not who they claim to be.
02 — Score
Scored in your browser
No account, no upload. The tab does the math and nothing leaves it.
03 — Evidence
Citations, not vibes
Every point in your score traces to a documented pattern — the full rubric is on the methodology page.
Finish the question, pick a screener
One question, four endings. Each screener is scored the same way: documented signals, weighted points, cited sources.
Know the tells
The six patterns that show up again and again in documented romance scams and bot conversations. If two or more feel familiar, run a check.
Love-bombing on day one
Declarations of deep connection within days — before they could plausibly know you.
read the pattern →The camera is always broken
Video calls perpetually blocked by broken cameras, bad signal, security rules.
read the pattern →Off the app, fast
Pressure to move to WhatsApp or Telegram quickly — away from platform moderation.
read the pattern →Replies that forget you
Polished paragraphs that never reference specifics you shared last week.
read the pattern →A story you can't visit
Oil rigs, deployments, remote contracts — jobs chosen because you can never show up.
read the pattern →Money enters the plot
An emergency, a crypto opportunity, gift cards. The ending every scam script shares.
read the pattern →$1.16B
lost to romance scams in the first nine months of 2025, per FTC figures.
4.5×
more revenue extracted per scam operation when AI is involved.
26%
of 90,000+ people surveyed admit flirting with a chatbot — some unknowingly.
Fair questions
Can this actually prove I'm talking to a bot?
No — and anything that claims it can is lying. These are screeners: they surface documented risk patterns and tell you which cheap verification steps are worth doing. The result is a weighted score with citations, never a verdict.
Where do my answers go?
Nowhere. The questions and scoring live entirely in this page — no account, no cookies, no analytics, no server. Close the tab and your answers are gone.
Who wrote the questions?
Each item is built from a documented pattern: FTC consumer-protection data, FBI guidance, clinical overviews from the Mayo and Cleveland Clinics, the National Domestic Violence Hotline's documentation, and the adult-attachment research literature. Every question shows its source, and the methodology page publishes every weight.
Can I answer for someone I'm worried about?
Yes. The scam check in particular is written to work both ways — for yourself, or on behalf of a parent or friend whose new relationship worries you.